Monday 2 October 2017

Succes

TEN PRINCIPLES THAT PROMOTE SUCCESSS .Cont. - PDS ONLINE MARKET PLACE

31. Stress is simply a response which you create in the interpretation of an event. Two people might find that a given event results in quite different responses. For example, an after dinner speech might strike fear into the heart of an inexperienced speaker while a strong orator views it as a wonderful opportunity to share his thoughts. Understanding that the perceived negative effects of an event or task may be mentally manipulated and conditioned towards the positive, will allow you to be a peak performer in all instances. 
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32. Read "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey. It contains a wealth of wisdom and powerful insights into further developing your character and enhancing your personal relationships. 

33. Become a committed audio-tape user. Most personal-mastery programs and books are now offered in this format. Listen to these inspirational materials on your way to work, whilst waiting in the line at a bank or while you wash dishes in the evening. Make your car a college on wheels and use the drive time to make knowledge your best friend. All down time can be very effectively used in this productive fashion. Use such opportunities to learn and continually expand your mind and its vast potential. Likewise shop for quality ELECTRONICS and Home appliances at the most Reliable online  market place, cliq here www.pdsstores.com/436661923 to Place order .

34. Try fasting one day every two weeks. During these fast days, drink fruit juice and eat fresh fruits only. You will feel more energetic, cleansed and alert. Fasting also has a salutary effect on your will-power as you are subverting the otherwise pressing impulses in your mind calling on you to eat more. yes fasting brings all your focus to the Divine force that is ready to connect your subconscious and will-power to the supreme God .

35. Keep a radio-cassette player at your office and listen to soft, soothing music throughout the day. Place pleasant scents and inspirational pictures in your workplace. By the magic of association, your work will become something you enjoy even more and arouse a very pleasant feeling within you. Budget your time on trips such that you can spend half an hour in the airport bookstore. They always contain the latest and best self-mastery books and tapes given that those who travel by air are of a group that finds value in these materials. 

36. Read our motivational write ups at our Facebook page @PDSCONNECTS  And don't just read this  once, read it over and over again. They contain an abundance of timeless wisdom on living a fuller and happier life. 

37. Remember that forgiveness is a virtue that few develop, but one that is most important to maintaining peace of mind. Mark Twain wrote that forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it. Practice forgiveness especially in those situations where it is seemingly difficult. By using your emotional forgiveness muscles more regularly, petty wrongs, remarks and slights will not touch you and nothing will penetrate your concentrated, serene mindset. 

38. Empty your cup. A full cup cannot accept anything more. Similarly, a person who believes that he cannot learn anything else will stagnate quickly and not move to higher levels. A true sign of a secure, mature individual is someone who sees every opportunity as a chance to learn. Even the teachers have teachers. cliq here http://www.pdsstores.com/436661923/category/1084646/home-appliance to learn how to shop Quality and cheaper home Applainces .

39. The Two Minute Mind is an excellent exercise for developing concentration. Simply stare at the second hand on your wristwatch for two minutes and think about nothing else for that time. At first your mind will wander but after 21 days of practice, your attention will not waver during the routine. One of the greatest qualities a person can develop to ensure his success is the ability to focus for extended periods of time. Learn to build up your concentration muscles and no task will be too difficult for you. 

40. Drink a cup of warm water before a speech. Ronald Reagan employed this strategy to ensure that he maintained his honey-smooth voice. Mastery of the art of public speaking is a noble goal. So dedicate yourself to it. You will be judged by the calibre of your communication skills. Speak about the experience you had in shopping at PDS Online through your comment at www.pdsstores.com/contact or like our Facebook page @PDSCONNECTS to speak to the millions of people who have been enjoying our products and inspirational write ups.

Righteous exalts a nation

RIGHTEOUSNESS EXALT A NATION
   Prov.14:34
says “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people” For us Christians we must align ourselves with the words of George Washington “It is impossible to rightly govern the world without God and the Bible.” In a time when spiritual and moral structures are disintegrating, when the social order sets itself against the principle of justice and charity, when the economic structures only expand and multiply poverty, the religious circle is bedevilled by hypocrisy and scandals and when lack of agape love and mistrust are eroding human relationships, no word of truth deserves our attention more than this: “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people.” According to Charles Hodge “These remarkable words assert the simple fact that spiritual and moral health is constructive and beneficial, that spiritual and moral sickness is destructive.” The degeneration, disintegration and demise of any and all people are inevitable if righteousness is abandoned. A nation or leadership devoid of righteousness must surely crumble. The fruit of righteous living blesses any nation. Beloved, we need to become prayer warriors for righteousness to reign in our nations again at this time. We are also like lawyers pleading the case before the Great Judge in heaven, saying, “Hear our cry, O Lord. Let there be righteousness in leadership and followership.” When we pray, those things done in secret will be brought to light! Not only do we want them exposed, but we want justice to prevail!
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Thursday 28 September 2017

ANGELIC OPERATION

          ANGELIC OPERATION
  An Angel is a spiritual being that serves especially as a messenger from God or as a guardian of human beings. 
God some time send them for a specific massage.I profesis into your life as you are reading this, that God will send your own Angelic messenger who is coming to deliver the message of your Divine upliftment in Jesus mighty name we pray Amen.

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Every divine mandate and declarations made into our lives must be enforced by the Angels today in the name of Jesus. Hebrews 1:14 emphasises thus, "Are they not all ministering spirits sent forth to minister for those who will inherit salvation?" Angels have often been involved in giving help to mortal men, such as feeding Elijah in the wilderness (1 Kings 19:5-6), protecting Daniel from the lions (Dan. 6:22), delivering Hezekiah from the Assyrians (Isa. 37:36), and freeing Peter from prison (Acts 12:7-10). Angels are heavenly ministers sent to serve those of us who will inherit salvation.  Angels were constant attendants during the earthly ministry of our Lord -- they came to Him in times of distress, peril and want. An angel announced His birth (Luke 2:9-13), and ministered to Him after His temptations in the wilderness (Matt. 4:11). When He knelt in prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane, angels came and strengthened Him (Luke 22:43). At His death, they stood guard over His tomb (Luke 24:4), and after His Resurrection they made the glad announcement that, "He is not here, but is risen!" (Luke 24:6). These same Angels are out  today to bring to pass all God's promises to you as you join others to patronize PDSCONNECTS-WWW.PDSSTORES.COM Our Reliable  Online maketing place.

Wednesday 27 September 2017

        HOW TO SHOP AT PDSCONNECTS - MAKET PLACE.  (8 easy steps)

             HOW TO SHOP AT PDSCONNECTS-WWW.PDSSTORES.COM AN ONLINE ELECTRONICS MAKET PLACE.  (8 easy steps)
      
1. Cliq on PDSCONNCTS-WWW.PDSSTORES.COM

2. cliq on any of these stores :PDS.COM OR SUNNYSTAR or you can cliq on our online  Link direct www.pdsstores.com/436661923.

3.scroll down to choose item/s you need to buy.

4.cliq on ADD TO BASKET botton,
the item you choose will move to the PDSCONNECTS basket you can add as many as you need to buy.

5.scroll up ,cliq on PDSCONNCTS basket .
The system will issue your invoice.
Remember:shipment cost within Lagos is #800 ,
       Outside Lagos State
If the item is below  10kg , shipping cost is #3000 .
Heavy items ;10 kg and above shipping cost is #5000  but heavier items like Lister and funitures varies depend on the shipping location.
In your invoice the system will add this cost depend on your location and types of item you choose to buy

6. Cliq on CHECKOUT botton
*System will issue you a form .
*Fill in the form for PDS delivery team  to get your contact.
*Remember , so important your zip code here is 110001

7.Agree to our policy by clicking on the small box below

8.cliq on PLACE ORDER botton .
*You will receive the item/s within 48hrs
*EXPECT a call from PDSCONNECTS delivery team (PDT) to schedule your convenience day and time  to receive your order .
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Tuesday 26 September 2017

Secret of Success

TEN PRINCIPLES THAT PROMOTE SUCCESSS CONTINUATION
                         BY
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21. No one can insult or hurt you without your permission. One of the golden keys to happiness and great success is the way you interpret events which unfold before you. Highly successful people are master interpreters. People who have attained greatness have an ability which they have developed to interpret negative or disempowering events as positive challenges which will assist them in growing and moving even farther up the ladder of success. There are no negative experiences only experiences which aid in your development and toughen your character so that you may soar to new heights. There are no failures, only lessons. 

22. Take a speed reading course. Reading is a powerful way to gain many years of experience from a few hours of study. For example, most biographies reflect the strategies and philosophies of great leaders or courageous individuals. Read them and model them. Speed reading will allow you to digest large quantities of material in relatively small periods of time. 

23. Remember people's names and treat everyone well. This habit, along with enthusiasm, is one of the great success secrets. Everyone in this world wears an imaginary button that screams out "I WANT TO FEEL IMPORTANT AND APPRECIATED!". 

24. Be soft as a flower when it comes to kindness but tough as thunder when it comes to principle. Be courteous and polite at all times but never be pushed around. Ensure that you are always treated with respect. 
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25. Never discuss your health, wealth and other personal matters with anyone outside of your immediate family. Be very disciplined in this regard. It is trasures every great companies keep secret but www.pdsstores.com is giving it freely just click here @PDSCONNECTS to like our Facebook page.

26. Be truthful, patient, persevering, modest and generous. That is the greatest secret of PDS Stores

27. Soak in a warm bath at the end of a long, productive day. Reward yourself for even the smallest of achievement. Take time out for renewal of your mind, body and spirit. Soon all your more important goals will be met and you will move to the next level of peak performance.
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28. Learn the power of breathing and its relationship with your energy source. The mind is intimately connected with your breathing. For example, when the mind is agitated, your breathing becomes quick and shallow. When you are relaxed and focused, your breathing is deep and calm. By practising deep, abdominal breathing, you will develop a calm, serene demeanor that will remain cool in the hottest of circumstances. Remember the rule of the Eastern mountain men: "to breathe properly is to live properly." 

29. Recognize and cultivate the power of autosuggestion. It works and is an essential tool in maintaining peak performance. We are all performers in one way or another and it is particularly valuable to use such techniques of athletes and public figures for our own enhancement. If you want to become more enthusiastic, repeat "I am more enthusiastic today and am improving this trait daily". Repeat it over and over. Purchase a legal notepad and write out this mantra 500 times. Do it for three weeks with regular practice and feel that this quality is developing. Very soon it will come. This is a strategy that Indian sages have employed for thousands of years to aid their spiritual and mental development. Do not be discouraged if the results are not immediate, they will certainly develop. The spoken word is a powerful influencer of the mind. 

30. Maintain a diary to measure your progress and to express your thoughts. Writing out not only your successes but your troubles is one of the world's most effective methods of erasing the worry habit, staying in optimum state and developing precision of thought. 
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Monday 25 September 2017

CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING

WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELINGS

Most Men do hurt their Wives in the name of correcting them. They speak harshly, they are so rash in their approach and can be very brutal.
Lots of women are living their lives in bitterness and anger due to the careless ways their husbands have been talking to them over time.
Here you will be able to know the right ways to talk to your wife without hurting her:
*1) LOWER YOUR VOICE:* Don’t shout at her, she is not your housemaid, she is not a Child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting?
*2) DO IT IN LOVE:* Correction should be done in love if done in any other way it turns to criticism and condemnation.
*3) DON’T CRITICIZE:* Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it’s constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.
Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes.
Correction and criticism are never the same.
Husband A says: what manner of food is this? is this popcorn or fried Rice? how I wish I marry a more sensible wife, with better home training, who can cook better.
Husband B says: Sweetheart this rice is too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduce any other time because of our health.
Husband A criticized, Husband B, corrected his wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife.
*4) PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT* : It will be wrong to correct when it’s not well done when you don’t praise when it’s well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds.
*5) DON’T DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN:*
Avoid correcting your wife in the presence of your Children.
Incessant correction of your wife before your Children will make them disrespect her.
*6) DON’T CORRECT HER IN THE PUBLIC* : Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentleman, and will affect her self-esteem.
*7) AVOID CORRECTION IN ANGER:* Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don’t do that.
*8) DON’T COMPARE HER WITH ANY OTHER WOMAN* : In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women. “Don’t you see what your friend is doing?”
“Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?”
“and so”
This is very wrong, no woman love to be compared with others, stop it.
*9) AVOID REFERRING TO OLD ISSUES*
Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled, stick to the present issue, discuss like adults and move on.
*10) DON’T ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD:* And you call yourself a woman? Virtuous women don’t behave like this, you better change before I change you.
This is very wrong, don’t do it.
*11) DON’T ATTACK HER DIGNITY* : You don’t behave like someone with sense, do you think at all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it. This is very wrong, you too, you are not talking like somebody that pass through a college.
*12) DO IT IN TIME OF PEACE:* Most husbands do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result.
*13) GIVE A HELPING HAND*: The best way to correct is to lead by example, step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in the front of the Television correcting what goes on in the kitchen.
Wives are doing a great job, appreciate yours and support her to be a better wife and mother.

Saturday 23 September 2017

AVOID ENVY IT IS A CAPITAL SIN

AVIOD ENVY IT IS A CAPITAL SIN
BUT MODELING MAY BE APPRECIATED.

Envy is the feeling of wanting to have what someone else has.
Modeling: usually small copy of something: a particular type or version of a product (such as a car or computer): a set of ideas and numbers that describe the past, present, or future state of something (such as an economy or a business)
Without modernling in the economy there wouldn't be a  competitive and healthy business or economy.

Envy pushes you to kill the inventor and occupy his position or still the money.
While modeling pushes you to do same thing he did to get where he is with a mindset of little difference.

See what Jesus said about envy:-

Matthew 20:1-16

This Sunday Jesus teaches us how envy and lack of contentment make us unnecessarily frustrated. We are all labourers in God's Kingdom and we are called to do work for His kingdom. Some get the calling early in life and some get the calling at their end stage in life. It does not matter, as long as we heed the call He will reward us as He wishes.

Dearly beloved, note that the landowner, whose decision to pay other workers the same wage was an act of mercy. This represents God, whose grace and mercy are shared abundantly upon those of He has chosen. “For he says to Moses, 'I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.' It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy” (Romans 9:15-16). In the parable the workers who were hired at five, were at disadvantage position to work for a full day job that be able to give them a wage that can take care of them and those who may depend on them. In Catholic social teachings, there is what is called 'OPTION FOR THE POOR'. In the parable also Jesus teaches us that God is just and generous with a preferential option for the poor.  “This preferential option for the poor and vulnerable includes all who are marginalized in society, victims of injustice and oppression.” All members of the society and the society as a whole have a special obligation to poor and vulnerable persons, those in disadvantaged positions.

Why is it difficult to rejoice in the good fortune of others? Why do we get jealous when someone gets more than us? Brethren we must avoid envy, for it has destroyed many families, churches, offices and relationships. Child of God, God's timetable for each of us are not the same. Unhealthy comparison breeds jealousy and envy.which blinds us from appreciating the love of God, always complaining and never grateful.  Remember that envy is one of the seven capital sin avoid it.

Remember modeling pushes you to be like Christ, Paul etc
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Secret to success

     TEN PRINCIPLES THAT PROMOTE SUCCESS

PDS.com is here to show you  how to stir and rekindle you-that is you up and to remind you the important of living a principle and purpose FULL life.
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Practice these  10 rules that made @pdsconnects what it is today.

1. Sleep less. This is one of the best investments you can make to make your life more productive and rewarding. Most people do not need more than 6 hours to maintain an excellent state of health. Try getting up one hour earlier for 21 days and it will develop into a powerful habit. Remember, it is the quality not the quantity of sleep that is important. And just imagine having an extra 30 hours a month to spend on the things that are important to you. 

2. Set aside one hour every morning for personal development matters. Meditate, visualize your day, read inspirational texts to set the tone of your day, listen to motivational tapes or read great literature. Take this quiet period to vitalize and energize your spirit for the productive day ahead. Watch the sun rise once a week or be with nature. Starting the day off well is a powerful strategy for self-renewal and personal effectiveness. 

3. Do not allow those things that matter the most in your life be at the mercy of activities that matter the least. Every day, take the time to ask yourself the question "is this the best use of my time and energy?" Time management is life management so guard your time with great care. 

4. Use the rubber band method to condition your mind to focus solely on the most positive elements in your life. Place a rubber band around your wrist. Each time a negative, energy sapping thought enters your mind, snap the rubber band. Through the power of conditioning, your mind will associate pain with negative thinking and you will soon possess a strongly positive mindset. 

5. Always answer the phone with enthusiasm in your voice and show your appreciation for the caller. Good phone manners are essential. To convey authority on the line, stand up. This will instill further confidence in your voice. 
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6. Throughout the day we all get inspiration and excellent ideas. Keep a set of cards (the size of business cards; available at most stationary stores) in your wallet along with a pencil to jot down these insights. When you get home, put the ideas in a central place such as a coil notepad and review them from time to time. As noted by Oliver Wendell Holmes: "Man's mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions." 

7. Set aside every Sunday evening for yourself and be strongly disciplined with this habit. Use this period to plan your week, visualize your encounters and what you want to achieve, to read new materials and inspirational books, to listen to soft soothing music and to simply relax. This habit will serve as your anchor to keep you focused, motivated and effective throughout the coming week. 

8. Always remember the key principle that the quality of your life is the quality of your communication. This means the way you communicate with others and, more importantly, the way you communicate with yourself. What you focus on is what you get. If you look for the positive this is what you get. This is a fundamental law of Nature. 

9. Stay on purpose, not on outcome. In other words, do the task because it is what you love to do or because it will help someone or is a valuable exercise. Don't do it for the money or the recognition. Those will come naturally. This is the way of the world. 

10. Laugh for five minutes in the mirror each morning. Steve Martin does. Laughter activates many beneficial chemicals within the body that place us into a very joyous state. Laughter also returns the body to a state of balance. Laughter therapy has been regularly used to heal persons with varied ailments and is a wonderful tonic for life's ills. While the average 4 year old laughs 500 times a day, the average adult is lucky to laugh 15 times a day. Revitalize the habit of laughter, it will put far more living into your life. 
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Monday 18 September 2017

GOOD DEEDS

HOW TO WITNESS GOOD DEEDS AT YOUR  FAMILY, NEIGHBOURS AND YOUR BUSINESS ENVIRON.

Matthew 5:13-16

A wise minister observed that good Christians make good neighbours. The more we receive and recognize God's abundance, the more it transforms our lives. The more God's love fills our lives, the more it overflows into the lives of others.

Think of Christian mentors in your life whose conduct spoke of God's grace to you in ways that they may not have realized.

Never be counted among the troublesome ones in your neighbourhood. Such ones have characters that can be likened to a dog whose barking disturbs everyone around. There are believers who are very active in the church and fellowship, they look very pious whenever they are in church, but in actual fact, they are thorns on the flesh of their families , neighbours AND environ.Actions often speak louder than words. A worker who does a good job is a blessing to his co-workers, customers, and employer.

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Bringing a meal to a struggling neighbourshows practical love. Praying for people in authority and speaking the truth to politicians puts our faith into action. People and nations who seek justice, love and mercy are lights in a dark world.

Whenever a good deed is mentioned in a biblical discussion, one name readily comes to mind. “Now in Joppa there was a disciple whose name was Tabitha, which in Greek is Dorcas. She was devoted to good works and acts of charity.” (Acts 9:36) Dorcas was known for her good works and acts of love for the poor, she was much loved in the community of Joppa. Dorcas is a fine example of how we are to meet the needs of those around us.

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Christians are to “continue to remember the poor” (Galatians 2:10). Hear this: “Religion that is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep one's self unstained from the world.” (James 1:27) This was the type of religion Dorcas and St. (Mother) Teresa of Calcutta practised, a religion of acts of charity and of good deeds. No wonder St. Teresa of Calcutta says, “We don’t need to look for happiness; if we have love for others, we'll be given it. It is the gift of God.”
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Business

WAYS TO GROW BUSINESS

When you first started your business, you probably did a lot of research. You may have sought help from advisors; you may have gotten information from books, magazines and other readily available sources. You invested a lot-in terms of money, time and sweat equity-to get your business off the ground. So...now what?
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For those of you who have survived startup and built successful businesses, you may be wondering how to take the next step and grow your business beyond its current status. There are numerous possibilities, 10 of which we'll outline here. Choosing the proper one (or ones) for your business will depend on the type of business you own, your available resources, and how much money, time and sweat equity you're willing to invest all over again. If you're ready to grow, we're ready to help.

1. Open another location. This might not be your best choice for business expansion, but it's listed first here because that's what often comes to mind first for so many entrepreneurs considering expansion. "Physical expansion isn't always the best growth answer without careful research, planning and number-planning," says small-business speaker, writer and consultant Frances McGuckin , who offers the following tips for anyone considering another location:

Make sure you're maintaining a consistent bottom-line profit and that you've shown steady growth over the past few years.Look at the trends, both economic and consumer, for indications on your company's staying power.Make sure your administrative systems and management team are extraordinary-you'll need them to get a new location up and running.Prepare a complete business plan for a new location.Determine where and how you'll obtain financing. (See " Got Cash? " for financing tips.)Choose your location based on what's best for your business, not your wallet.

2. Offer your business as a franchise or business opportunity. Bette Fetter, founder and owner of Young Rembrandts , an Elgin, Illinois-based drawing program for children, waited 10 years to begin franchising her concept in 2001-but for Fetter and her husband, Bill, the timing was perfect. Raising four young children and keeping the business local was enough for the couple until their children grew older and they decided it was time to expand nationally.

"We chose franchising as the vehicle for expansion because we wanted an operating system that would allow ownership on the part of the staff operating Young Rembrandts locations in markets outside our home territory," says Bette. "When people have a vested interest in their work, they enjoy it more, bring more to the table and are more successful overall. Franchising is a perfect system to accomplish those goals."
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Streamlining their internal systems and marketing in nearby states helped the couple bring in their first few franchisees. With seven units and some time under their belt, they then signed on with two national franchise broker firms. Now with 30 franchisees nationwide, they're staying true to their vision of steady growth. "Before we began franchising, we were teaching 2,500 children in the Chicago market," says Bette. "Today we teach more than 9,000 children nationwide, and that number will continue to grow dramatically as we grow our franchise system."

Bette advises networking within the franchise community-become a member of the International Franchise Association and find a good franchise attorney as well as a mentor who's been through the franchise process. "You need to be open to growing and expanding your vision," Bette says, "but at the same time, be a strong leader who knows how to keep the key vision in focus at all times."

3. License your product. This can be an effective, low-cost growth medium, particularly if you have a service product or branded product, notes Larry Bennett, director of the Larry Friedman International Center for Entrepreneurship at Johnson & Wales University in Providence, Rhode Island. "You can receive upfront monies and royalties from the continued sales or use of your software, name brand, etc.-if it's successful," he says. Licensing also minimizes your risk and is low cost in comparison to the price of starting your own company to produce and sell your brand or product.

To find a licensing partner, start by researching companies that provide products or services similar to yours. "[But] before you set up a meeting or contact any company, find a competent attorney who specializes in intellectual property rights," advises Bennett. "This is the best way to minimize the risk of losing control of your service or product."

4. Form an alliance. Aligning yourself with a similar type of business can be a powerful way to expand quickly. Last spring, Jim Labadie purchased a CD seminar set from a fellow fitness professional, Ryan Lee, on how to make and sell fitness information products. It was a move that proved lucrative for Labadie, who at the time was running an upscale personal training firm he'd founded in 2001. "What I learned on [Lee's] CDs allowed me to develop my products and form alliances within the industry," says Labadie, who now teaches business skills to fitness professionals via a series of products he created and sells on his Web site, HowToGetMoreClients.com .

Seeing that Labadie had created some well-received products of his own, Lee agreed to promote Labadie's product to his long contact list of personal trainers. "That resulted in a decent amount of sales," says Labadie-in fact, he's increased sales 500 percent since he created and started selling the products in 2001. "Plus, there have been other similar alliances I've formed with other trainers and Web sites that sell my products for a commission."

If the thought of shelling out commissions or any of your own money for the sake of an alliance makes you uncomfortable, Labadie advises looking at the big picture: "If you want to keep all the money to yourself, you're really shooting yourself in the foot," says the Tampa, Florida, entrepreneur. "You need to align with other businesses that already have lists of prospective customers. It's the fastest way to success."

5. Diversify. Small-business consultant McGuckin offers several ideas for diversifying your product or service line:

Sell complementary products or servicesTeach adult education or other types of classesImport or export yours or others' productsBecome a paid speaker or columnist

"Diversifying is an excellent growth strategy, as it allows you to have multiple streams of income that can often fill seasonal voids and, of course, increase sales and profit margins," says McGuckin, who diversified from an accounting, tax and consulting business to speaking, writing and publishing.

Diversifying was always in the works for Darien, Connecticut, entrepreneurs Rebecca Cutler and Jennifer Krane, creators of the "raising a racquet" line of maternity tenniswear , launched in 2002. "We had always planned to expand into other 'thematic' kits, consistent with our philosophies of versatility, style, health and fun," says Cutler. "Once we'd begun to establish a loyal wholesale customer base and achieve some retail brand recognition, we then broadened our product base with two line extensions, 'raising a racquet golf' and 'raising a racquet yoga.'"

Rolling out the new lines last year allowed the partners' current retail outlets to carry more of their inventory. "It also broadened our target audience and increased our presence in the marketplace, giving us the credibility to approach much larger retailers," notes Cutler, who expects to double their 2003 sales this year and further diversify the company's product lines. "As proof, we've recently been selected by Bloomingdale's, A Pea in the Pod and Mimi Maternity."

6. Target other markets. Your current market is serving you well. Are there others? You bet. "My other markets are what make money for me," says McGuckin. Electronic and foreign rights, entrepreneurship programs, speaking events and software offerings produce multiple revenue streams for McGuckin, from multiple markets.

"If your consumer market ranges from teenagers to college students, think about where these people spend most of their time," says McGuckin. "Could you introduce your business to schools, clubs or colleges? You could offer discounts to special-interest clubs or donate part of [your profits] to schools and associations."

Baby boomers, elderly folks, teens, tweens...let your imagination take you where you need to be. Then take your product to the markets that need it.

7. Win a government contract. "The best way for a small business to grow is to have the federal government as a customer," wrote Rep. Nydia M. Velazquez, ranking Democratic member of the House Small Business Committee, in August 2003. (Click here to read that article.) "The U.S. government is the largest buyer of goods and services in the world, with total procurement dollars reaching approximately $235 billion in 2002 alone."

Working with your local SBA and SBDC offices as well as the Service Corps of Retired Executives and your local, regional or state Economic Development Agency will help you determine the types of contracts available to you. The U.S. Chamber of Commerce and the SBA also have a Business Matchmaking Program designed to match entrepreneurs with buyers. "A fair amount of patience is required in working to secure most government contracts," says Johnson & Wales University's Bennett. "Requests for proposals usually require a significant amount of groundwork and research. If you're not prepared to take the time to fully comply with RFP terms and conditions, you'll only be wasting your time."

This might sound like a lot of work, but it could be worth it: "The good part about winning government contracts," says Bennett, "is that once you've jumped through the hoops and win a bid, you're generally not subject to the level of external competition of the outside marketplaces."

8. Merge with or acquire another business.In 1996, when Mark Fasciano founded FatWire, a Mineola, New York, content management software company, he certainly couldn't have predicted what would happen a few years later. Just as FatWire was gaining market momentum, the tech downturn hit hard. "We were unable to generate the growth needed to maximize the strategic partnerships we'd established with key industry players," Fasciano says. "During this tech 'winter,' we concentrated on survival and servicing our clients, while searching for an opportunity to jump-start the company's growth. That growth opportunity came last year at the expense of one of our competitors."

Scooping up the bankrupt company, divine Inc., from the auction block was the easy part; then came the integration of the two companies. "The process was intense and exhausting," says Fasciano, who notes four keys to their success:

Customer retention. "I personally spoke with 150 customers within the first few weeks of consummating the deal, and I met with 45 clients around the globe in the first six months," notes Fasciano. They've retained 95 percent of the divine Inc. customer base.Staff retention. Fasciano rehired the best and brightest of divine's staff.Melding technologies. "One of the reasons I was so confident about this acquisition was the two product architectures were very similar," says Fasciano. This allowed for a smooth integration of the two technologies.Focus. "Maybe the biggest reason this acquisition has worked so well is the focus that FatWire has brought to a neglected product," says Fasciano.

FatWire's acquisition of divine in 2003 grew its customer base from 50 to 400, and the company grew 150 percent, from $6 million to $15 million. Fasciano expects no less than $25 million in sales this year.

9. Expand globally. Not only did FatWire grow in terms of customers and sales, it also experienced global growth simply as a result of integrating the best of the divine and FatWire technologies. "FatWire finally has international reach-we've established new offices in the United Kingdom, France, Italy, Spain, Holland, Germany, China, Japan and Singapore," says Fasciano. This increased market share is what will allow FatWire to realize sustained growth.

But you don't need to acquire another business to expand globally. You just need to prime your offering for an international market the way FatWire was primed following the integration of its technologies with divine's.

You'll also need a foreign distributor who'll carry an inventory of your product and resell it in their domestic markets. You can locate foreign distributors by scouring your city or state for a foreign company with a U.S. representative. Trade groups, foreign chambers of commerce in the United States, and branches of American chambers of commerce in foreign countries are also good places to find distributors you can work with.

10. Expand to the Internet. "Bill Gates said that by the end of 2002, there will be only two kinds of businesses: those with an Internet presence, and those with no business at all," notes Sally Falkow a Pasadena, California, Web content strategist. "Perhaps this is overstating the case, but an effective Web site is becoming an integral part of business today."

Landing your Web site in search engine results is key-more than 80 percent of traffic comes via search engines, according to Falkow. "As there are now more than 4 billion Web pages and traffic on the Internet doubles every 100 days, making your Web site visible is vital," she says. "You need every weapon you can get."

Design and programming are also important, but it's your content that will draw a visitor into your site and get them to stay. Says Falkow, "Putting together a content strategy based on user behavior, measuring and tracking visitor click streams, and writing the content based on researched keywords will get you excellent search results and meet the needs of your visitors."

Got Cash?

Need financing to assist with your growth strategy? Chris Lehnes, vice president of business development with CIT Small Business Lending, a provider of SBA loans, advises the following:

1. Visit the SBAonline. There are many useful small-business tools there as well as information on local SBA contacts. Your local SBA office can provide you with a list of lenders that provide financing to small businesses.

2. Be prepared. Any lender you work with will want to be confident in your ability to manage your own expansion. Think of what your lender might ask so you're prepared for those tough questions.

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Sunday 17 September 2017

DO WE NEED HUMILITY?

         DO WE NEED HUMILITY?
Humility is the mother of all virtues, as it is the basic necessity for peace in all ramifications. However, pride is really a viper whose venom has ruined and is still ruining the human race. In fact, wars, various crises, instability, murder, disobedience, to mention but a few are results of the absence of humility in the lives of men. The Scripture enjoins us today that, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) As the popular adage has it, “A stick lying on the ground can never fall,” likewise, humility enhances steady growth: spiritually, academically, socially, politically and economically. Our life today is characterized by so much strife, anarchy, chaos and other vices because we have failed to imbibe the virtue of humility. Fulton J. sheen says, “No old man will enter into the kingdom of God.”

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Old here simply depicts pride. Little wonder Christ limits the possession of the land to just the meek, hence, He says, “Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the land.” (Matt. 5:5) So, humility must be worn as a cloak, for it is in it that we gain endurance to embark on our journey. No life learns anything from the Master if such a life is not humble, hence, it is in silent humility before the divine throne of God that we discover hidden truths from God. Prayerlessness comes as a result of lack of humility. For by that, we no longer see that sublime majesty and greatness. In humility, we are moved to yearn for the Almighty power whose majesty and glory is made manifest to us. From such hearts, we decipher the need for God's word – “Call to me and I will answer you, I will tell you great and hidden things which you have not known.” (Jer. 33:3) Hence, in humility we gain the fear of God which is the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 1:7). Archbishop Ulathrne says, “The science of humility rests upon the knowledge of God and of one's self.” There is an urgent need for us to be humble as Christians. There are three basic gifts we should always desire and these are, humility, purity and love.
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Friday 15 September 2017

Monday 28 August 2017

Monday 14 August 2017

FIRST IMPRESSION

         FIRST IMPRESSION

Let's talk about first impressions today.

In psychology, a first impression is the event when one person first encounters another person and forms a mental image of that person. Impression accuracy varies depending on the observer and the target (person, object, scene, etc.) being observed. First impressions are based on a wide range of characteristics: age, race, culture, language, gender, physical appearance, accent, posture, voice, number of people present, and time allowed to process. The first impressions individuals give to others could greatly influence how they are treated and viewed in many contexts of everyday life.

Here are some quick tips on making a good first impression:

Let’s say you’ve just walked into a big network event. The room buzzes with prospective clients and high-level leaders. You want to introduce yourself… but how?

1) Find one way to add value to the conversation.
From the moment you meet someone, be asking yourself: “How can I add value to this person?” What problem is your listener facing and how can you help them overcome it?

You want your listener to come away from the conversation feeling good about their investment of time and energy. What can you contribute to the discussion? If you’re not adding value, you’re just taking up space.

2) Understand how the world sees you.
Your personality already has certain patterns of communication that shape how people perceive you. Fascinating conversationalists don’t have to be sparkling and witty and charismatic. They have to understand how to build an authentic connection with their listener. You already have this ability. There’s a natural style of communication that defines how people perceive you, and when you apply that in conversation, it’s incredibly effective. My research shows that people are more likely to listen to you, remember you, buy from you and even fall in love with you when you apply your own natural style.

3) Know your “Anthem.”
Your “Anthem” identifies the perfect words to describe who you are, at your best. Your Anthem is the tagline for your personality. Once you know what makes you valuable to others, you’re more authentic and confident and more likely to make a positive impression.

4) Ask real questions.
When it comes to first impressions, your questions matter more than your answers. The goal is to get away from trite topics, and get on a roll with the other person in which you’re both effortlessly engaged in a subject.You don’t have to be witty or spontaneous to ask great questions. You do have to listen and be ready to ask real questions.

5) Consider what people will already be thinking and talking about.
It’s much easier to immediately connect with someone if you already know what they’re already pondering, struggling with or excited about. Before you go to your next conference, event, meeting, etc spend a moment to consider what will already be on everyone’s mind. How can you become part of their current mindset?

6) Commit to a strong start.
Sometimes, it feels like a big effort to start a conversation. That’s why people just keep scanning the room and don’t make eye contact. When introducing yourself, don’t give a half-hearted greeting and wait for the other person to do all the work. Remember: Every time you introduce yourself, you’re either adding value or taking up space. If you’re not going to commit to a strong start, it’s better to not introduce yourself in the first place. A weak start leads to a weak first impression.
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The first moments of an interaction offer your window of opportunity for connection. If you earn your listener’s interest during that brief time people will be more likely to engage further. If you fail to add some sort of value in that golden window, they’re less likely to listen to what you say, let alone remember you.

Those first defining moments of an interaction deserve a little focus and energy, don’t you think? Bring a sense of purpose to the conversation.

Ultimately, remember: The purpose of a conversation is not to kill time, but to grow a connection.

Take out your conversational watering can and grow more connections.
----- Sally Hogshead

Friday 30 June 2017

Keep the lady you love

HOW TO KEEP THE LADY YOU ARE DATING:

Do you love your girl and you don't want another man to snatch her from you? Then do the following things:

1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek for attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.

2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.

3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail.

4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you don't have, you don't have all the time.

5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.

6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.

7. Tell her daily that you love her.

8. Play with her and joke with her daily.

9. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.

10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.

11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do something.

12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.

13. Respect her.

14. Do not take her for granted.

15. Do not cheat on her.

16. Play with her hairs

17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.

18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.

Saturday 17 June 2017

LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTERS IN MARRIAGE

LITTLE THINGS CAUSE BIG QUARRELS IN MARRIAGES! By Bro IFEANYI Eze 

Welcome to De law ELECTRONICS blog If you hear some of the things that leads to quarrel in marriages, you will laugh. For example, one day, a couple who exchanged unpleasant words for hours went to see a servant of God to settle the quarrel. He asked them what caused the quarrel? Guess what? Toothpaste!

The wife usually squeeze the toothpaste tube from the middle, and the husband insisted that she must squeeze it from the bottom because that was what his parents taught him. Unfortunately, his wife grew up squeezing toothpaste anywhere she likes. This matter wouldn’t have led to a quarrel if the man had bought two toothpaste and allow his wife to squeeze her own wherever she likes, while he follows his own rule. 


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A woman woke up one day and told her husband that she was filing for divorce. Do you know what led to that? The husband loves kissing the wife, but he won’t brush his teeth. The woman had begged, knelt down on several occasion to plead with him, and even kept the toothpaste and brush close to the mans bed, yet he won’t brush his teeth. She decided that enough is enough. Whenever you hear that a marriage is about to break up, what led to that, in most cases wasn’t a serious matter. Unfortunately, they magnified it.

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“Ever stopped to ask yourself just what causes quarrel? At least 99 percent of the time, quarrels start over petty, unimportant matters like: John comes home a little tired, a little on edge. Dinner doesn’t exactly please him, so he turns up his nose and complains.

Joan’s day wasn’t perfect either, so she rallies to her own defense with, “Well, what do you expect on my food budget?” Or “Maybe I could cook better if I had a new stove like everybody else.” This insults John’s pride, so he attacks with, “Now, Joan, it’s not lack of money; it’s simply that you don’t know how to manage.”

And away they go! Before a truce is finally declared, all sorts of accusations are made by each party. In-laws, out-laws, sex, money, premarital and postmarital promises, and other issues will be introduced. Both parties leave the battle nervous, tense. Nothing has been settled, and both parties have new ammunition to make the next quarrel more vicious.”~David J. Schwartz.

Probably you returned home and discovered that your husband had messed up the house you cleaned up before you went to work. Or you returned from work and discovered that the meal you asked your wife to prepare was not even on fire. At this point you must choose either a happy home, or frowning one. Always think about the end result of any action you want to take when you’re offended. Situations like I just illustrated has led to the disintegration of families. 

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I discovered that when a couple have issues, it seems as if the devil sits on their shoulders to help prolong the matter. The devil will say to the husband, “Remember that you’re the head of this house, you should not apologize first. If you do that, you will loose respect.” Then he will sit on the woman’s shoulders and say to her, “Remember that he is the one that offended you. He should apologize first.”

If the couple buys into that first line of suggestions, that short devil will move into the second stage. If the woman is smiling while talking to someone on the phone, that short devil will whisper into the man’s ears, “This woman is not even remorseful at all. Go and slap her! Show her that you’re the man of the house!”

If the wife notice that the husband is no longer coming home as early as he used to do, probably because of workload, that voice will say to her, “Look at this foolish man, so he is coming home late now so that I will beg him for forgiveness. In fact, I will start coming home late too.”

Am sure someone who is reading this article right now is presently acting this drama with his or her spouse. My advise is, go home right now and give that short devil a bloody nose by apologizing to your spouse. Don’t allow pettiness to tear your home apart! The three most important words in human history are, “I am sorry.” Many wars that led to the death of thousands of people could have been averted if someone had apologized. If you say I am sorry, this world will not come to an end. Call that person right now and apologize. Take back your marriage !

To eliminate quarrels, eliminate petty thinking. Here’s a technique that works: before complaining or accusing or reprimanding someone or launching a counterattack in self-defense, ask yourself, “Is it really important?” In many cases, it isn’t and you avoid conflict.

When you feel like taking negative action, ask yourself, “Is it really important?” That question works magic in building a finer home situation. It works at the office too. It works in home-going traffic when another driver cuts in ahead of you. It works in any situation in life that is bound to produce quarrels.

David J. Schwartz said, “Keep your eyes focused on the big objective. Many times we are like the salesman who, failing to make the sale, reports to his manager, “Yes, but I sure convinced the customer he was wrong.” In selling, the big objective is winning sales, not arguments. In marriage the big objective is peace, happiness, tranquility, not winning quarrels or saying, “I could have told you so.”

In working with employees, the big objective is developing their full potential, not making issues out of their minor errors. In living with neighbors, the big objective is mutual respect and friendship, not seeing if you have their dog impounded because once in a while it barks at night.” Dear friend, get rid of petty thinking. Forgive immediately. When your spouse makes a mistake, kindly correct in love so that both of you can live in peace. Wisdom is profitable to have .

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Monday 5 June 2017

HOW TO HAVE SUPERNATURAL LIFE

How to Have Supernatural Life

If you went through CCD as a child, as I did, you at least remember that there are two kinds of grace: sanctifying and actual. Keep in mind that they aren’t the same thing.

Sanctifying grace perdures in the soul. It’s what makes the soul holy; it gives the soul supernatural life. More properly, it is supernatural life. Actual grace, by contrast, is a supernatural impulsion. It’s transient. It doesn’t live in the soul but acts on the soul from the outside, so to speak. It’s a supernatural kick in the pants. It gets the will and intellect moving so we can seek out and retain sanctifying grace.

To illustrate, imagine yourself transported instantaneously to the bottom of the ocean. What’s the first thing you’ll do? That’s right: die. You’ll die because you aren’t equipped to live underwater. You don’t have the right breathing apparatus. If you want to live in the deep blue sea, you need equipment you aren’t provided with naturally—you need something that will elevate you above your nature, something super (above) natural, such as oxygen tanks.

It’s much the same with your soul. In its natural state, it isn’t fit for heaven. It doesn’t have the right equipment, and if you die with your soul in its natural state, heaven won’t be for you. What you need to live there is supernatural life, not just natural life. That supernatural life is called sanctifying grace. If it indwells your soul when you die, then you have the equipment you need, and you can live in heaven (though you may need to be cleansed first in purgatory). If it doesn’t indwell your soul when you die, too bad.

You can obtain supernatural life by yielding to actual graces you receive. God keeps giving you these divine pushes, and all you have to do is go along. For instance, he moves you to repentance, and if you take the hint you can find yourself in the confessional, where the guilt for your sins is washed away. Through the sacrament of penance, through your reconciliation to God, you receive sanctifying grace. But you can lose it again by sinning mortally.

Remember that word: mortal. It means death. Mortal sins are deadly sins because they kill off this supernatural life, this sanctifying grace. Mortal sins can’t coexist with the supernatural life, because by their nature such sins are saying “No” to God, while grace is saying “Yes.”

When you lose supernatural life, there’s nothing you can do on your own to regain it. You’re reduced to the merely natural life again, and no natural act can merit a supernatural reward. You can merit a supernatural reward only by being made able to act above your nature, which you can do only if you have help.

To regain supernatural life, you have to receive actual graces from God. Think of these as helping graces. Such graces differ from sanctifying grace in that they aren’t a quality of the soul and don’t abide in it. Rather, actual graces enable the soul to perform some supernatural act, such as an act of faith or repentance. If the soul responds to actual grace and makes the appropriate supernatural act, it receives again supernatural life.

Sanctifying grace implies a real transformation of the soul. Recall that the Protestant Reformers denied that a real transformation takes place. They said God doesn’t actually wipe away our sins. Our souls don’t become spotless and holy in themselves. Instead, they remain corrupted, sinful (full of sin) and God merely throws a cloak over them and treats them as if they were spotless, knowing all the while that they’re not.

But that isn’t the Catholic view. We believe souls really are cleansed by an infusion of the supernatural life. Paul writes of us as “in Christ a new creature” (2 Cor. 5:17), “the new man, who according to God is created in justice and holiness of truth.” Our souls don’t become something other than souls; they don’t cease to be themselves. Grace elevates nature. Our intellects are given the new power of faith, something they don’t have at the merely natural level. Our wills are given the new powers of hope and charity, things also absent at the merely natural level.

Moving on, I’ve mentioned that we need sanctifying grace in our souls if were to be equipped for heaven. Another way of saying this is that we need to be justified. “Now you have been washed clean and sanctified, and justified through the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and through the Spirit of our God” (1 Cor. 6:11). In Catholic theology, justification and sanctification go together. You’re justified so long as you’re sanctified. You cease to be justified when you cease to be sanctified. The heirs of the Reformers see justification differently. For them, justification is a legal declaration. If you “accept Christ as your personal Lord and Savior,” he declares you justified. You aren’t sanctified—your soul is the same as before—but you’re eligible for heaven. You’re expected thereafter to sanctify your life (don’t make the mistake of thinking Protestants say sanctification is unimportant), but the degree of sanctification you achieve is, ultimately, immaterial to the question of whether you’ll get to heaven. You will, since you’re justified.

Most Fundamentalists go on to say that losing ground in the sanctification battle won’t jeopardize your justification. You might sin worse than you did before “getting saved,” but you’ll enter heaven anyway, because you can’t undo your justification, which has nothing to do with whether you have supernatural life in your soul. Calvin taught the absolute impossibility of losing justification. Luther said it could be lost only through the sin of unbelief—that is, by undoing the act of faith—but not by what Catholics call mortal sins.

Catholics see it differently, of course. If you sin grievously, the supernatural life in your soul disappears, since it can’t co-exist with serious sin. You then cease to be justified. If you were to die while unjustified. you’d go to hell. But you can become rejustified by having the supernatural life renewed in your soul, and you can do that by responding to the actual graces God sends you. He sends you one, say, in the form of a nagging voice that whispers, “Repent! Go to confession!” You do, your sins are forgiven, you’re reconciled to God, and you have supernatural life again. Or you say to yourself, “Maybe tomorrow,” and that particular supernatural impulsion, that actual grace, passes you by. But another is always on the way, God never abandoning us to our own stupidity.

(Venial sins don’t destroy supernatural life, and they don’t even lessen it. Mortal sins destroy it outright. The trouble with venial sins is that they weaken us, making us more vulnerable to mortal sins.)

Once you have supernatural life, once sanctifying grace is in your soul, you can increase it by every good action you do: receiving Communion, saying prayers, performing the corporal works of mercy. Is it worth increasing sanctifying grace once you have it—isn’t the minimum enough? Yes and no. It’s enough to get you into heaven, but it may not be enough to sustain itself. It’s easy to fall from grace, as you know. The more solidly you’re wed to sanctifying grace, the more likely you can withstand temptations. And if you do that, you maintain sanctifying grace. In other words, once you achieve the supernatural life, you don’t want to take it easy. The minimum isn’t good enough because it’s easy to lose the minimum.

Wednesday 1 March 2017

YOUR WORLD SHALL PREVAIL

Psa 119:89:–:90 RSV - 89 For ever, O LORD, thy word is firmly fixed in the heavens.

1Pe 1:23:–:2 RSV - 23 You have been born anew, not of perishable seed but of imperishable, through the living and abiding word of God;
Mat 24:35 RSV - 35 Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away.
Mat 5:18 RSV - 18 For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the law until all is accomplished
Psa 119:105 RSV - 105 Thy word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
Eze 3:2 RSV - 2 So I opened my mouth, and he gave me the scroll to eat.
Job 22:28 RSV - 28 You will decide on a matter, and it will be established for you, and light will shine on your ways

Monday 27 February 2017

Habits in marrage

*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:*
*TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON*

1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*

Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorns. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*

No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So focus on the present and the future!

3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES*

Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!

4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*

Don't compare your marriage with anyone else's! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.

5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*

When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgivingness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, bitterness, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*

There is no ready made- marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back axles,  etc and If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupants to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriages ... Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.

7. *GOD DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*

He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mold into what you desire. You may desire a man/woman who can pray for 1 hour but your husband/ wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve and vice versa.

8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*

You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situations may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.

9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*

Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce

10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*

Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.

Sunday 26 February 2017

Legacy

HUSTLE FOR LEGACY NOT TOYS!

Anytime I travel down to the village, I usually pay attention to things some of us may not consider. I usually move around to see the mansions that were built when we were growing up, and the cars that was reigning then. Doing this has helped me to understand life better. One of the houses I saw recently was completely dilapidated. I saw another one that I cannot even look at if you give it to me for free. Guess what? I saw the Range Rover that was reigning then, and I couldn’t believe what I saw.

Today’s treatise is not designed to show you how useless material things are. I want a good car, nice house, good clothes and other stuff, but most importantly, I want to leave a good legacy for the next generation! Few days ago, I watched Kenneth Hagin’s 80th birthday that was organized by his son and others in 1997. What moved me was not really the event, but the generals he successfully raised before died. Anyone that teaches faith today is directly or indirectly connected to Kenneth Hagin.

God’s servants like Kenneth and Gloria Copeland, John and Dodie Osteen (parents of Joel Osteen) and many other ministers around the world testified how God used Kenneth Hagin to change their lives. While watching that event I said to myself, although this man is dead, but he is still alive.

Kenneth Hagin is still living through the voices of David Oyedepo, Bill Winston, Kenneth Copeland, Poju Oyemade, and many other global voices. He started the Word of Faith Movement which was originally introduced by E. W Kenyon, and raised thousands of followers who are transferring the same movement to the next generation! That’s is the true meaning of legacy.

It is estimated that about 360,000 children are born daily, and 151,600 people die daily worldwide. So there are 15,000 births each hour, and 6,316 deaths each hour. One day you will be one of them. What values are you leaving behind for the next generation? God did not create you to just struggle for what to eat and what to wear, you are here for a specific assignment, and until you discover and maximize it, life will remain a burden.

Living for self is the pathway to the land of nobodies! Champions are not interested in just meeting their needs but on how to meet the needs of others. By meeting the needs of others, their own needs are met, and they usually immotalize their names in the process. There are people who are alive but we cannot remember them; but there are those who died over 200 years ago but we can’t forget them.

Jesus lived a very short life, but His impact is still speaking till tomorrow. Before He left, He set up a team of twelve people who would understudy Him. He taught these twelve men for three-and-half-years, died, rose back to life, appeared to those men for final instruction, and went straight to heaven. These men took what Jesus taught them to the ends of the earth. Today, there are over three billion Christians on earth. The result of the legacy Jesus left behind.

Don’t just appear and disappear from the world scene. Touch lives, transform your generation and make the world a better place. Sir Isaac Newton gave us the law of gravity, calculus, law of motion and many other inventions. Alexander Flaming gave us penicilin. Sir James Simpson gave us the chloroform which is used to induce patients to sleep during surgery.

R. G Letourneau gave us the earth moving machine, and Orville and Wilbur Wright, the two sons of a bishop gave us the airplane! What are you giving to the world before you die? It is your impact while alive that writes your name in the hearts of men forever.

Sunday 5 February 2017

Improve your self

3 Ways Self-Improvement Can Change Your Life

Focusing on self-improvement has presented many opportunities in our lives—like speaking at live events, writing for online publications and traveling the world.

This can happen for you, too.

But in order for things to change in your life, in order to get where you want to be, you have to grow into the person who is ready for that change. Personal development is vital to your success.

Here are three specific ways focusing on self-improvement can change your life:

1. It presents you with new opportunities.
Growth in yourself eventually leads you to new opportunities, opportunities that don’t come about until you grow into the person who is ready for them. All you have to do is focus on self-improvement—start by reading personal development articles, books, blogs—and implement the things you learn into your own life.

2. It increases your self-esteem to new levels.
Self-confidence is ultimately the starting point to following your dreams—you have to believe in yourself and your dreams enough to go after them. As you grow, you’re building up that mindset, that belief.

When I picked up my very first personal development book—Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill—that’s when my self-esteem started rising, when I really started to believe in myself and my goals. Reading success books was what pushed me to grow, to change, the motivation behind my goals.

3. It can help you become a better version of yourself.
Becoming a better version of yourself is the main goal of self-improvement—to improve in your job, your business, your relationships. Whatever area of your life you’re working on, that’s part of growing as a person. You have to constantly look at what you can improve and have the awareness to know what needs to be done to do it.

The most effective way of finding out how to get better is to ask the people around you to make a list of what you’re best at and where you could make improvements. Take the list of improvements and work on them one by one.

What areas of self-improvement are you working on, and how has it changed your life?

Thursday 12 January 2017

How to discover a lady,s xter

How to Judge a Woman's Character

If you want to get a girlfriend who will treat you well, it's important that you learn to detect a woman's character quickly.  Here are some vital signs to be on the lookout for when first interacting with a woman.

Steps

1

See if she speaks negatively about many other people, including all her ex boyfriends.  If she only has bad things to say about everyone else, chances are she won't think fondly of you after a while either.  On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the positive about people, she will probably be a much better girlfriend for you as well.  

2

Be on the lookout to see how she treats others.  For example, if you two are out at a cafe, restaurant, or coffee shop, how does she treat the employees, waiters and waitresses?  Is she abusive or is she sensitive? Kindness is free, so there is no excuse to be a miser with it.

3

Ask her what are her top values in life, and ask her to be specific.  If she focuses on things that are purely superficial, like fame and wealth, chances are she won't stick it out through the rough patches in life with anyone when she is in a relationship with them.  On the flip side, if she values loyalty, honesty, trust, and health, chances are she will appreciate a good man who treats her well.     

4

Behave in a casual relaxed manner. This is important, because in order to get a woman to reveal her character, it's essential that you don't make her feel judged for being herself.  So try to be as relaxed as possible when interacting with a woman. Asking her about her values must be done in a way where she does not feel like there is a right or wrong answer. Don't come across as being too serious, or she will only present to you her "formal" self which is more of an act, rather than who she really is naturally.  

5

Make note if she is the kind of person who is able to apologize and own up to making a mistake.  If she is not able to do this, she will be a horrible person to have a relationship with, for her ego is so big that she can't admit her mistakes or learn from them.

6

Pay particular attention to how she behaves when she is under stress.  If she is still behaving in a way that is kind and honest and sensitive, she is proving to be an amazing woman.  However, if she becomes spiteful, hateful, or abusive, this is an indicator of how she will be in the future when under any type of stress.  And life definitely will have its stressful moments, so you can be sure such a woman will behave badly again in the future.

7

Listen very carefully when she speaks, because most people give away their personalities very quickly without realizing it.  This is because most people don't consciously try to behave badly, so they all think they are great even if in fact they are abusive or cruel.       

Detect Woman of good character

CHARACTER

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)


Men, when it comes to dating and attraction with women, “cute” is a fine starting point. I understand that God made men and women to be physically attracted to each other, and I would never encourage a brother to marry a gal he was not at least somewhat attracted to. But “hot” is not a good ending point either—kinda like “hell” isn’t a good ending point.

There is so much about a woman to know as a man contemplates whether or not to pursue her beyond friendship. A common mistake men make before asking a woman out is they make snap judgments about her based on looks and don’t take the time to observe her in action to get an idea of her character.

I’m not saying that you’ve got to see if this woman can pass a comprehensive character evaluation before you go out for a cup of coffee, but I am saying to spend some time in prayer and pay attention to how she speaks to her friends and carries herself around other guys. What drives her? Whom does she love? How does she talk about the people she loves? Things like this will reveal far more about her than her exterior will.

DOWN TO THE CORE

Just as I’ve told the ladies, it is crucial for men to know that character is the undergirding of a woman, the nature of who she is. At her core, she must be a woman of character to get your attention.

Over her lifetime, a woman’s waist and chest size will fluctuate, her hair color will fade, and her interests, passions, and ideas will develop. She might change her mind a dozen times (possibly even in the same hour) and she will keep you guessing for a lifetime. (One of the many mysterious traits about our gender.)

What will remain consistent is her character. To be sure, she will mature and, by God’s grace strengthen, her character over time. But the essential qualities must be in place at the get-go.

A godly man will have complete confidence in her character before he says “I do.” I am not saying she must have reached perfection or even live up to your standards (which, by the way, may be completely unrealistic). I am saying you want to find a woman of godly character (read Proverbs 31).

8 ESSENTIALS

Do you know the answers to these essential questions about her character:

1. IS SHE A WOMAN OF GOD?

If you clearly see evidence of Christ having regenerated her heart, ultimately it is him you have confidence in, not her. He has promised to complete the work in her and you can trust the Holy Spirit who lives in her to refine her heart.

2. WHO INFLUENCES HER LIFE THE MOST?

If it’s Oprah, the gal at the Clinique counter, or her tarot card reader, we may have a problem. A woman of character will surround herself with godly influences—her Bible, her church, and others who love Jesus. She will have friends who don’t know Christ, but she will be influencing them.

3. IS SHE SOFT?

I’m not talking hair, skin, or around the middle. I am also not talking weak, mousy, or a pushover. You want to observe her having a tender heart toward God and others—especially when she is wrong.

4. WHO KNOWS HER WELL?

I get it, the mysterious woman persona is intriguing, but she can’t be a mystery to everyone. If she is not known deeply by someone, chances are she’s hiding something—maybe pain, loneliness, sin, shame—but her character is shrouded. She needs to let the redeeming light of the gospel of Jesus shine in her darkness.

5. IS SHE TEACHABLE?

Humility transforms a woman’s heart. You want her to always be learning more about God first, as well as health, food, art, music, or whatever. A teachable woman will always be growing, changing, maturing, and interesting.

6. IS SHE RULED BY TRUTH OR BY EMOTION?

A woman of character will understand the balance between truth and feeling. She will not be an impenetrable stoic, nor will she be a drama queen. She may lean one way or the other but will ultimately let the truth of Christ control, define, and settle her.

7. IS SHE FEARFUL?

Fear of man can be debilitating in the life of a woman; fearing God is the path to life and freedom for a woman. Marry a woman who, as Peter describes, “[does] not fear anything that is frightening.” You will need her by your side, not cowering in the corner, when life gets tough.

8. IS SHE WISE WITH HER WORDS?

Women talk. It’s science. They have thousands more words to expend in a day than you do. Women of character use their words to build up, speaking love and honor. They do not gossip, tear down, or dishonor with their words. What words does she use that reveal her character?

“Cute” is a good start, but character is the measuring stick of a woman worthy of your time and pursuit. Be intentional about building your own character and diligent in your search to find a woman whose character resembles Christ’s.

How to discover a lady,s xter

How to Judge a Woman's Character

If you want to get a girlfriend who will treat you well, it's important that you learn to detect a woman's character quickly.  Here are some vital signs to be on the lookout for when first interacting with a woman.

Steps

1

See if she speaks negatively about many other people, including all her ex boyfriends.  If she only has bad things to say about everyone else, chances are she won't think fondly of you after a while either.  On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the positive about people, she will probably be a much better girlfriend for you as well.  

2

Be on the lookout to see how she treats others.  For example, if you two are out at a cafe, restaurant, or coffee shop, how does she treat the employees, waiters and waitresses?  Is she abusive or is she sensitive? Kindness is free, so there is no excuse to be a miser with it.

3

Ask her what are her top values in life, and ask her to be specific.  If she focuses on things that are purely superficial, like fame and wealth, chances are she won't stick it out through the rough patches in life with anyone when she is in a relationship with them.  On the flip side, if she values loyalty, honesty, trust, and health, chances are she will appreciate a good man who treats her well.     

4

Behave in a casual relaxed manner. This is important, because in order to get a woman to reveal her character, it's essential that you don't make her feel judged for being herself.  So try to be as relaxed as possible when interacting with a woman. Asking her about her values must be done in a way where she does not feel like there is a right or wrong answer. Don't come across as being too serious, or she will only present to you her "formal" self which is more of an act, rather than who she really is naturally.  

5

Make note if she is the kind of person who is able to apologize and own up to making a mistake.  If she is not able to do this, she will be a horrible person to have a relationship with, for her ego is so big that she can't admit her mistakes or learn from them.

6

Pay particular attention to how she behaves when she is under stress.  If she is still behaving in a way that is kind and honest and sensitive, she is proving to be an amazing woman.  However, if she becomes spiteful, hateful, or abusive, this is an indicator of how she will be in the future when under any type of stress.  And life definitely will have its stressful moments, so you can be sure such a woman will behave badly again in the future.

7

Listen very carefully when she speaks, because most people give away their personalities very quickly without realizing it.  This is because most people don't consciously try to behave badly, so they all think they are great even if in fact they are abusive or cruel.